"No one dies virgin.. Life will fuck you one day for sure.!"
I read this quotation for the first time, when I was in class 10 but I was not able to understand the depth of this quote.. I was like "how can life fuck somebody.?"..But as I started growing up , I understood the vivid meaning of those words.
So my question for all of you is simple.. "Did you get fuck by life..? or Have you ever been raped irrespective of your gender.? ".. I say "yes" you must be.
You would have got confused that what shit I am writing and who am I to tell whether you are raped or not. But for me each and every person here on this earth has been raped. So, the big question is "Is rape only physical..??" ..Cant you be raped mentally or psychologically..
According to wiki "Rape is a type of sexual assault against a person without his/her consent". The what does mental rape means?. "It must be mental assault against a person by force or by torture"
I used to have a friend name Vicky Saxena whose father is a well known doctor at my home place. Vicky was a smart programmer and good at maths. We both used to compete each other in coding. His father always wanted him to be a doctor so that he could take over his place and his clinic. (Selfish father i guess or was he right??). In class 10 vicky score 96 in cse and 75 in science with a 'C' grade in Biology. When he was to select his subjects for class 11 he was excited to take computer and maths. But soon his excitement went in vain as his dad asked him forcefully to take biology by scolding and the poor fella couldn't argue..
There we go in class 12 same boy score 63% with and being the son of richie rich dad, he got admission in a medical college through a whopping donation of 35 lacs.(I would have got an audi a4 car with those bucks). And there I see my old competitor Vicky , a boy who got an year back in 2 year, and struggling in the third year. A bright coder who has become a DRUG, SMOKE,ALCOHOL and S** addict . I know choosing this path screwing his career was his complete fault,, but "was it really only his fault??" What if currently he had been a great coder or placed in a reputed company."
But this could only be possible in DAYS OF FUTURE PAST. He got screwed , he screwed and got fu***d by life and he was the victim of MENTAL RAPE..
I have also heard about a girl name Neha Agarwal , a promising bright student. She used to be topper of her class , three years senior to me. She belonged to a very orthodox family where son is all and daughter is a SCAR. Being the topper of class she was not send away from her hometown for her medical studies , she was send for bsc in a local college at her native place. She kept begging his dad and family to allow her to give exams or to fill various forms but here also ll went in vain.
As her dad said , "You going to part of some other family so what is the need of studying these subjects and we have to spend a lot in your marriage so we don't have that much money".
All she could do was cry. At the age of 21 she started teaching and started enjoying it as well earning 12000. But , she was unaware of the NIGHTMARE which was about to come. For her family she seemed to be of 41 years not 21 years so at the age of 22 she had to marry forcefully a boy eight years older than her , a govt. employee .
She could not fight again because "when your family is against you , people lose all the courage they have , they are bound to be in tears only." That bright girl became mother at the age of 23 (same age on which might be you are reading this post and thinking , I wont marry before 28 or 30 etc) . The age at which she should have earn or studied or played games with her friends , she had to play different kind of games with her husband.
So what was it ?? Again a mental rape , a torture , rope of dreams and career . Can you feel the pain the girl would have felt knowing that his father wasted lacs of money in her marriage or in his sons revelry. How many times she would have thought about committing a suicide . She must have become dead from inside till now , a tragic end for a beautiful soul.
You will see cases of mental rape everywhere. At schools when teacher discriminating between the weak and topper students . When the weak student would have got an impression that he is good for nothing and one day he does become good for nothing. The reason was that though which was forcefully inserted in his brain while he was scolded by his mom/dad or teacher that he is good for nothing.
A lover using the love of his life or I should rather say time pass of his life after getting the job done , breaking all his promises . A girl leaving a boy for another richie rich boy and this cycle continues . What is all this ? You always feeling inferior about yourself , complaining about yourself , taking yourself as a zero loser ..What is all this? This is only MENTAL RAPE my friend , this is only. I hope you must have understood what it is.
Now a days rarely people are seen supporting the dream of other even if it is a vague one. Rarely a teacher talks politely to a weak student that "yes my dear you can also do it, you can also become topper" rather punishing him. Rarely a family is seen who is supporting his daughter against the society . Rarely a family allows his son/daughter to be what he wants not what they or the society wants. .!!
What should a person do actually if he is about to be mentally raped..??? REBEL , FIGHT BACK, NEVER GIVE UP .. even if he/she has to argue with the one's whom he/she love he should be ready to do that. Because , few dreams are ours , few wishes are ours which requires only our permission , nobodies else.
And one day by achieving what he/she desired he proves to everyone that he/she was right. He was not wrong in this fight. You will become hopeless shattered if your family is not with you but don't end yourself , don't end your fight.. keep fighting until YOU BECOME THAT VERY YOU WHOM YOU SEE WHEN YOU CLOSE YOUR EYES AND YOU SMILE..AND YOU GET GOOSEBUMPS..
Ek bachcha kya chahta hai..
Ek bachcha toh gharwalo ka sath chahta hai..
Bheed me wo unka hath maangta hai..
Wo hath na mile to wo haar jata hai.
par,
Usey haarna nahi hai, use to ladna hai..
Apne sapno ke liye.
Use to udna hai, ek pankchi k jaise..
Apne sapno ko paane k lie use kuch kar jana hai..
Apne pas apni khushiyan use toh le kar aana hai..
Toh usey to ladna hoga..
Chahe kisi ka hath mile na mile..
Usey toh chalna hoga.
Usey toh ladna hoga.
Thanks for reading it. Hope you liked it.
Keep Smiling,
Keep Living,
Keep Rocking
Be a Rebel.
Anurag Srivastava
I read this quotation for the first time, when I was in class 10 but I was not able to understand the depth of this quote.. I was like "how can life fuck somebody.?"..But as I started growing up , I understood the vivid meaning of those words.
So my question for all of you is simple.. "Did you get fuck by life..? or Have you ever been raped irrespective of your gender.? ".. I say "yes" you must be.
You would have got confused that what shit I am writing and who am I to tell whether you are raped or not. But for me each and every person here on this earth has been raped. So, the big question is "Is rape only physical..??" ..Cant you be raped mentally or psychologically..
According to wiki "Rape is a type of sexual assault against a person without his/her consent". The what does mental rape means?. "It must be mental assault against a person by force or by torture"
I used to have a friend name Vicky Saxena whose father is a well known doctor at my home place. Vicky was a smart programmer and good at maths. We both used to compete each other in coding. His father always wanted him to be a doctor so that he could take over his place and his clinic. (Selfish father i guess or was he right??). In class 10 vicky score 96 in cse and 75 in science with a 'C' grade in Biology. When he was to select his subjects for class 11 he was excited to take computer and maths. But soon his excitement went in vain as his dad asked him forcefully to take biology by scolding and the poor fella couldn't argue..
There we go in class 12 same boy score 63% with and being the son of richie rich dad, he got admission in a medical college through a whopping donation of 35 lacs.(I would have got an audi a4 car with those bucks). And there I see my old competitor Vicky , a boy who got an year back in 2 year, and struggling in the third year. A bright coder who has become a DRUG, SMOKE,ALCOHOL and S** addict . I know choosing this path screwing his career was his complete fault,, but "was it really only his fault??" What if currently he had been a great coder or placed in a reputed company."
But this could only be possible in DAYS OF FUTURE PAST. He got screwed , he screwed and got fu***d by life and he was the victim of MENTAL RAPE..
I have also heard about a girl name Neha Agarwal , a promising bright student. She used to be topper of her class , three years senior to me. She belonged to a very orthodox family where son is all and daughter is a SCAR. Being the topper of class she was not send away from her hometown for her medical studies , she was send for bsc in a local college at her native place. She kept begging his dad and family to allow her to give exams or to fill various forms but here also ll went in vain.
As her dad said , "You going to part of some other family so what is the need of studying these subjects and we have to spend a lot in your marriage so we don't have that much money".
All she could do was cry. At the age of 21 she started teaching and started enjoying it as well earning 12000. But , she was unaware of the NIGHTMARE which was about to come. For her family she seemed to be of 41 years not 21 years so at the age of 22 she had to marry forcefully a boy eight years older than her , a govt. employee .
She could not fight again because "when your family is against you , people lose all the courage they have , they are bound to be in tears only." That bright girl became mother at the age of 23 (same age on which might be you are reading this post and thinking , I wont marry before 28 or 30 etc) . The age at which she should have earn or studied or played games with her friends , she had to play different kind of games with her husband.
So what was it ?? Again a mental rape , a torture , rope of dreams and career . Can you feel the pain the girl would have felt knowing that his father wasted lacs of money in her marriage or in his sons revelry. How many times she would have thought about committing a suicide . She must have become dead from inside till now , a tragic end for a beautiful soul.
You will see cases of mental rape everywhere. At schools when teacher discriminating between the weak and topper students . When the weak student would have got an impression that he is good for nothing and one day he does become good for nothing. The reason was that though which was forcefully inserted in his brain while he was scolded by his mom/dad or teacher that he is good for nothing.
A lover using the love of his life or I should rather say time pass of his life after getting the job done , breaking all his promises . A girl leaving a boy for another richie rich boy and this cycle continues . What is all this ? You always feeling inferior about yourself , complaining about yourself , taking yourself as a zero loser ..What is all this? This is only MENTAL RAPE my friend , this is only. I hope you must have understood what it is.
Now a days rarely people are seen supporting the dream of other even if it is a vague one. Rarely a teacher talks politely to a weak student that "yes my dear you can also do it, you can also become topper" rather punishing him. Rarely a family is seen who is supporting his daughter against the society . Rarely a family allows his son/daughter to be what he wants not what they or the society wants. .!!
What should a person do actually if he is about to be mentally raped..??? REBEL , FIGHT BACK, NEVER GIVE UP .. even if he/she has to argue with the one's whom he/she love he should be ready to do that. Because , few dreams are ours , few wishes are ours which requires only our permission , nobodies else.
And one day by achieving what he/she desired he proves to everyone that he/she was right. He was not wrong in this fight. You will become hopeless shattered if your family is not with you but don't end yourself , don't end your fight.. keep fighting until YOU BECOME THAT VERY YOU WHOM YOU SEE WHEN YOU CLOSE YOUR EYES AND YOU SMILE..AND YOU GET GOOSEBUMPS..
Ek bachcha kya chahta hai..
Ek bachcha toh gharwalo ka sath chahta hai..
Bheed me wo unka hath maangta hai..
Wo hath na mile to wo haar jata hai.
par,
Usey haarna nahi hai, use to ladna hai..
Apne sapno ke liye.
Use to udna hai, ek pankchi k jaise..
Apne sapno ko paane k lie use kuch kar jana hai..
Apne pas apni khushiyan use toh le kar aana hai..
Toh usey to ladna hoga..
Chahe kisi ka hath mile na mile..
Usey toh chalna hoga.
Usey toh ladna hoga.
Thanks for reading it. Hope you liked it.
Keep Smiling,
Keep Living,
Keep Rocking
Be a Rebel.
Anurag Srivastava
Very realistic and touching..
ReplyDeleteAwesome blog Anurag
Awesome blog...bhakt
ReplyDeleteToo real in this era.
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